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Am I F'ing Crazy???

Hell I wouldn't mind findig a 21 year old hottie, but just when things get goin good my wife would roll over and nudge me and ruin my great dream!!
Seth, Bro Why you thinkin of moving anyways, just look around in Sac-town you can get some good trim up there. Stay put and use the big head on top. Good luck.

As much as I'd like to be messin with 20 somethings, a more mature woman has its attractions.

My question? If she's in Canada, and your here, how could you have possibly spent enouph time with her to know she's the one?

Jerry

Seth, I haven't forgotten that I've offered you a job in the hydraulics field. Boy, that's one long commute! Make the next lunch run and we can all "talk". Or lock you in the spare room and throww rocks at you.

Gosh guys, thanks for all the input, especially for those of you who took the time to share your personal experience and life.

While not an internet fling, e-mail is the preferred method of communication due to schedule conflicts. We met at Joe's Crab Shack in Old Town Sac way back in July and, as War Canoe so eloquently put it, it was a "Hit it and quit it" situation. But we've stayed it touch ever since. I never thought anything was going to be serious at all, just a good time and a new friend.

The more we shared with each other the more I wanted to see her again. So, a couple weeks ago she drove down and I flew up to Spokane, WA to hang out for a weekend. Talk about sparks flying, it was like a large grinder on thin wall mild steel tubing! Not only the conversation and emotional connection and not only the unbelievable sex. Everything combined made me feel like a stupid school boy.

I don't think I'm being too ignorant, I know that passion and infatuation are not love. It's fun and exciting, just not love. Written out, there are many pro's and may con's to pursuing this as a reality. I'm just feeling such a strong connection that I can't see what harm may come by moving up there to give it a whirl. Not like we'd be living together right off the bat and it's not like Hawaii is sinking. All options still remain open. The real price to pay will be heart ache if things go sour. I don't see that happening, but I'm not ignorant to the possibility. I will never avoid the joy just to avoid the pain.

What I really wanted to know is; do you regret doing the things you've done to be with the woman you are with? I'm sure you've all made huge sacrifices in one way or another. Was it worth it for you?

Originally Posted by Budweiser

Gosh guys, thanks for all the input, especially for those of you who took the time to share your personal experience and life.

While not an internet fling, e-mail is the preferred method of communication due to schedule conflicts. We met at Joe's Crab Shack in Old Town Sac way back in July and, as War Canoe so eloquently put it, it was a "Hit it and quit it" situation. But we've stayed it touch ever since. I never thought anything was going to be serious at all, just a good time and a new friend.

The more we shared with each other the more I wanted to see her again. So, a couple weeks ago she drove down and I flew up to Spokane, WA to hang out for a weekend. Talk about sparks flying, it was like a large grinder on thin wall mild steel tubing! Not only the conversation and emotional connection and not only the unbelievable sex. Everything combined made me feel like a stupid school boy.

I don't think I'm being too ignorant, I know that passion and infatuation are not love. It's fun and exciting, just not love. Written out, there are many pro's and may con's to pursuing this as a reality. I'm just feeling such a strong connection that I can't see what harm may come by moving up there to give it a whirl. Not like we'd be living together right off the bat and it's not like Hawaii is sinking. All options still remain open. The real price to pay will be heart ache if things go sour. I don't see that happening, but I'm not ignorant to the possibility. I will never avoid the joy just to avoid the pain.

What I really wanted to know is; do you regret doing the things you've done to be with the woman you are with? I'm sure you've all made huge sacrifices in one way or another. Was it worth it for you?

If I regreted what ive done, and the sacrafices that ive made, I'd be in a focked up relationship. So my answer is no I dont regret, and yes it is well worth it.

To answer the original question, YES, YOU ARE FUKIN NUTS.

Now, in canada, I dont care how good the cooter is, they have THICK WATER. Now thick water means no boating, and no boating means an unhappy Seth. You do the math, and if you cant figure it out go to Kens so the old man can throw rocks at you.



Norm

What is this thick water you speak of. The Columbia river is right there (the same one that opens to the Pacific Ocean on the border of Oregon and Washington) and there are lakes peppered throughout the area.

I thought thick water was the stuff they have in Wisconsin that makes all the chicks fat and ugly

So long as they don't turn me around at the boarder for having no mufflers I most certainly will be bringing the boat.

Are you just trying to scare me? 4 kids might not, but NO BOATING??? Might have to do some more thinking.

Originally Posted by Budweiser

What is this thick water you speak of. The Columbia river is right there (the same one that opens to the Pacific Ocean on the border of Oregon and Washington) and there are lakes peppered throughout the area.

I thought thick water was the stuff they have in Wisconsin that makes all the chicks fat and ugly

So long as they don't turn me around at the boarder for having no mufflers I most certainly will be bringing the boat.

Are you just trying to scare me? 4 kids might not, but NO BOATING??? Might have to do some more thinking.

not trying to scare you at all, just pointing out some things that you may not have thought of cause your thinking with a different head right now. All the DLB guys are here for ya, and will do our best to help you help yourself make a good and educated decision

Ok Seth, you asked for my opinion.....

1 - Until that girl's divorce is final, Don't move anywhere! Are you nuts? (they always go back to the ex at some point)

2 - Besides great "bedtime" and a strong connection, this girl has 4 little people who depend on her, are they gonna be depending on you too right off the bat?

3 - Because she is much older, you need to be prepared that she is going to want a ring, and a huge commitment in a big way, in a short period of time.

4 - Everything these guys have said is right on.

But, Whatever you decide, Good Luck, and may the dlb be with you, LOL.

You have only been with her twice. I think the little head is thinking for the big one. Keep a couple things in mind when making your decision. MILF’s are hot. however, you will be having a relationship with four children as well. Have you spent time with them? How does she treat them? If it’s not how you would raise your children, that’s going to make things difficult. There hers not yours and they know that.

Keep in mind that when you met her she was married and still is. If monogamy is not an issue with you in a relationship then you won’t mind if she cheats on you. There is a pattern here Seth.

Do you know or have you met the soon to be ex? If she has four children you’re going to be dealing with him as well. Keep all this in mind before uprooting for some putie that resides in a cold place that rains more than you could imagine. IE; NO BOATING. However, that will give you plenty of time indoors to build a relationship with your woman and new family of four. That is of course if she is there and you’re not at home babysitting wile she is out looking for a new father for her kids.

On a final note. What do you have in your wallet? She is not young and dumb. Fanatical stability will matter to her when deciding if you’re welcome in her house and around her kids or just a sausage with a pulse. That brings me to my next question. Who gets the house when and if she dumps him?

Don’t get mad about my response. Just make an educated decision with all this in mind.

Seth, I for one would not move up there until she is seperated from husband and can prove it. If she can prove that to you hell knock the sides out of it until she tells you to leave, and then have best breakup sex you've ever had.
Seth the heart knows no bounderies. I say go for it. You can always move to hawaii later(maybe with her, maybe not) Good luck with whatever you and only you decide!

Originally Posted by Chuckles

Seth, bro, are you serious?
I need to see some pic's before I make any comments.
Please post some photos of her boat.
Respectfully,
Chuckles

now thats thinking like a big dog, Yea Seth where is her boat?? gotta love it