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Divorce Questions

I fear my marriage may be heading towards a divorce. She's saying the spark is gone, somethings missing ect ect, gonna try the counseling bit see if we can work things out. We only pretty much have debt to split if it happens, anyone here have and suggestions for how to handle this nonsense cleanly?

Any words of advice from those who have experience in this realm? Only been together 2 years, 5 total. I'm a freaken wreck and she doesn't seem phased.


~Brian


P.s. I am keeping the friggen boat, no way no how that its goin anywhere. heh.

Been in your shoes, but 7 years for us. Once the lady has changed her mind its probably changed for good. Get YOUR affairs in order and hide as much liquid cash as possible. Go to the therapist and all the other jazz.......it gives you longer to hide money.

trust me: IT"S WORTH IT

Simply put...It is a business decision now and you need to take your emotions out of it. Easier said than done but if you can keep the emotions out then this can be terminated as painless as possible for both of you.

I don't believe in the silly games and shit like that. If you both do what is right it can be done like adults.

Realize that if it happens, that divorce is a buisness, and dont let your emotions get in the way.

It sounds like she has already lost the spark, so dont be the super nice guy trying to win her back and give up everything

Been there, done that

Originally Posted by LuckyDaze

I fear my marriage may be heading towards a divorce. She's saying the spark is gone, somethings missing ect ect, gonna try the counseling bit see if we can work things out. We only pretty much have debt to split if it happens, anyone here have and suggestions for how to handle this nonsense cleanly?

Any words of advice from those who have experience in this realm? Only been together 2 years, 5 total. I'm a freaken wreck and she doesn't seem phased.


~Brian


P.s. I am keeping the friggen boat, no way no how that its goin anywhere. heh.

Be a man and walk away from it. You stay in there and try to work it out, you'll only prolong your misery. I can read between the lines and tell you what exactly is going on, but I'm sure you already know deep down. She has lost all respect for you and won't get it back (if in fact you were a good husband) until she gets her teeth knocked down her throat a few times from more failed relationships. Never ever show your weak side in this. Get the fukk out and don't look back.

Originally Posted by riverbound

Stay as far away from lawyers as possible. Mine took 3 years to finalize but we remained civil the entire time when things got intense we would take a break and come back to dealing with it when tempers had subsided.

Sad thing is "The spark is gone" usually means "the spark is somewhere else"

a good friend of mine once said...nobody goes nowhere.

This is so true... especially with women...

What state do you live in?

Invite Ratso,Rio and Lucky to the best restaurant in your area,relax and listen.