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    Default Am I F'ing Crazy???

    Other than Smiley (love you sweetheart), Shorty and Mrs. BJDS (BIGJOEDUCKSLAYER), I think this space is mostly us guys. I'd love to hear Smiley, Shorty and Mrs. BJDS's input on this too, but I'm putting this out there for the guys.

    All in all, do you regret the things you've done, or the decisions you've made to be with the woman you're with? I've recently fallen in love and it feels SO good. Normally, I wouldn't even ask. But, there are a few things that make me wonder "Am I making the right choice?".

    The last positive thing I'm going to say about her is... SHE MAKES MY HEART SING.

    Okay, anyways, back to the point. I didn't want to say anything about it to you guys, but I was planning to move to Hawaii this coming February. I just figured I'm single with no children, might as well take advantage of that and go where ever the wind takes me. Hawaii seemed like a good place for the wind to blow.

    Then I met her. She lives in Canada. She's 39 and I usually date girls that are 21-25. She has 4 children and she's currently separating in her marriage.

    Am I crazy? Move on? Follow my heart? WTF???

    I know many of you have been around the block a time or two. Right now I'm 99.99% moving to Canada (not Hawaii) in February. Your opinions are greatly appreciated.

    Sorry to have brought such a conversation into "Man World".


    Blowers, turbo's, BIG CID... Did that compensate for the general wussie-ness of this post?

    Again, thanks guys, for your input.

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    That is so far out there I call BULLSHIT on the whole post..

    If you are serious one of your friends needs to kick you ass for even considering it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justfloatn View Post
    That is so far out there I call BULLSHIT on the whole post..

    If you are serious one of your friends needs to kick you ass for even considering it.
    LMAO, Im glad u said it!

    Just in case youre serious, be careful, she'll probably end up back with her husband.......anyways, youre not going anywhere, were not done boating yet!

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    Am I F'ing Crazy???




    dates 21-25 yr olds

    now with 39yr old + 4 kids

    switching from Hawaii to Canada

    I know love is blind sometimes as most of us guys have had the ole "bait and switch" pulled on us by our better halves in the early stages but COME ON..

    Sounds like internet dating at its finest


    Just my 2 cents.


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    FOK THAT SETH... there is plenty of dump truck broads with 4+ kids right here in cali why go to canada, bro you live in sacramento AKA sac-town the mack town there is plenty of tail out there!
    plus 2 adults,4 kids and a cooler dont fit in your boat so if it dont fit dont need it


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    Seth,
    I myself would not due what your about to do. Have you met her in person, or is it a internet fling? Theres plenty of fish in the sea that have no guppies. My wife and I have 4 young kids between the 2 of us, and it can get real hard at times when just the 2 of us want to get out together. The last time the two of us went on a date together was probably over a year ago, no BS. That there alone puts a huge strain on relationships. With the kids not being yours I could see it not lasting for that long. Do what you feel is right, but I feel it's a bad decission. Go to Hawaii where it's warm and there are chicks swarming in bikinis(or even better stay here in sac). If your 99.99% sure you are gonna move to Canada, the likley hood of our opinions probably is going to stop you. Have fun, good luck, and dont get mad when people say; I told you so...



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    Quote Originally Posted by Racer52 View Post
    Am I F'ing Crazy???




    dates 21-25 yr olds

    now with 39yr old + 4 kids

    switching from Hawaii to Canada

    I know love is blind sometimes as most of us guys have had the ole "bait and switch" pulled on us by our better halves in the early stages but COME ON..

    Sounds like internet dating at its finest


    Just my 2 cents.

    Ditto! At 24 I dated a 35 year old with three kids. Great girl, but she went NUTS after four months! Fun while it lasted, but lucky I made it out alive! I wish I was kidding!

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    How long has it been? The first 6 months is always the best. Wait it out. I married into 2 kids. It can be tough. My advice,
    Stay The F___ Out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Racer52 View Post
    Am I F'ing Crazy???




    dates 21-25 yr olds

    now with 39yr old + 4 kids

    switching from Hawaii to Canada

    I know love is blind sometimes as most of us guys have had the ole "bait and switch" pulled on us by our better halves in the early stages but COME ON..

    Sounds like internet dating at its finest


    Just my 2 cents.

    Well, your boating bros are trying to look out for you.....even if she's the one I'd think about it long and hard before I jumped into this deal!! Good luck buddy!

    "I'd rather be lucky than good"

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    I follow my heart , latley it has been attatched to a couple of big balls

    Hats off Seth . If you love her and its right - you will know it - if she sucks a pillow threw your ass -- well marry her
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cat Sass View Post
    LMAO, Im glad u said it!

    Just in case youre serious, be careful, she'll probably end up back with her husband.......anyways, youre not going anywhere, were not done boating yet!
    Very well put, especially the last sentence

    OK, I'm not a DLB member but I probably should be since I know a lot of you guys anyway, and I know Seth as well . . . . Seth brother, if it is not BS, I say DONT DO IT! There are tons of chicks out there and while it feels good to be with one, it took me loosing everything twice in the last 9 years to learn the hard way . . . . . where I blew it was like you I was unattached and could go in any direction, so I did what at the time I thought was right. If I had only tried to talk myself out of it rather that talk myself into it, I would have been a whole lot better off . . . . . . just my two pesos Bro

    BTW . . . . glad you didn't post this on Open Water . . . . no tellin' where this thread would have gone . . . .

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    Well Seth if I knew how to quote every post on here, then I would cuzz they are all right on.. Now you say she is getting seperated and now she has you... mmmm Mark my words when she gets seperated from you she will also have a new guy.. and 4 kids, get real... Seth come on over , I'll lock you up in the spare room and throw rocks at you till you get your head on straight again.. and tradin some tight little 21 yr old for a 4 time 39 yr old???? Seth my boy, I know you are smarter then that. You are a thinker, so please start and use the big head for a while...



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    Default Knock the bottom out of it.....

    and move quickly toward the exit....


    Excess baggage makes this a hit and run at best...

    Find a little hottie with NO KIDS...You will be much happier overall...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucky View Post
    I follow my heart , latley it has been attatched to a couple of big balls

    You might want to re-read this. This sounds like you might be a little attached to Seth

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