I am lookin for it too
I started it
What did I do wrong
Did not mention any names to protect the innocent
It wasn't you. One member posted a "personal" public record belonging to another member and the MOD deleted the thread rather than the posts.
FWIW, I think your friend has paid his debt and will live with his decision for the rest of his life. A little help from you may go a long way. That being said, you will make the decision that you feel is best for you & you family because that's what being your family's patriarch is all about.
I will repeat the warning here. Any member posting derogotory information about another member with intent to damage that member will be banned. Take it elsewhere. Ownership of this forum does not want it here. There will be no discussion of additional warnings to those involved in this incident or the one that got locked a week or so ago.