Just as a reference, touch pain threshold to heat is 130-140 degrees F in most humans. Oil at that temp is on the cool side as it relates to running temp in engine or transmission. So my point is, if you can't lay your hand on the transmission case, it has no bearing on the oil being too hot.
Excessive heat will cause atf failure, turning it brown and smelling. This occurs up in the mid to high 200ºF range (way above the temp water boils at). This is a level far above human heat touch tolerance. Having built quite a few 400's in a former life I can say with some degree of knowledge that not a lot of heat is generated at idle as it relates to oil running temperature range. There is simply not a lot of friction creating heat going on at that level. Yes the pump is creating pressure heat and the planetaries are creating some friction but there is just not a lot of load. Yes it will be hot to touch, but again 140ºF isn't hot for atf. All just for reference on what is hot and what is not.
Consider that in an average vehicle, the "cooler" is in the radiator. The coolant medium in that radiator is operating in excess of 200ºF (the water). While it may be cooler than that at the radiator return side to the engine after being cooled by the fan and airflow my point is that the atf is still being "cooled" by very "hot" water. Transmissions typically go from 100K to 200K miles in these conditions, properly serviced. I would venture to say if a marine trans is failing at idle conditions, without coolant water flowing, there is a transmission problem and not a heat problem causing it.
I have seen many and owned one ski race boat with force fed trans cooler that sees little water flow at idle. Never seen a trans heat problem due to it.